5 Tips to Healthy Arguments

Argue Well

You're going to argue about things. Thats inevitable. The tip is to do it in a stress free way. The second that a critique or demand comes into play, stress is sure to follow. Its best to discuss the situation in a neutral tone of voice and with an open mind towards your partners views . Then try to come up with the best solution possible.

Your Spouse is Annoying Accept It

Nobody is perfect that's a fact. Your partner's imperfections help to make him or her the person that you fell for way back when. Try to view these annoyances in a positive light: They're reminders of the quirks you used to love about your partner, rather than the start of your irreconcilable differences.

Dont Yell!!!

Yelling is a good way to shut down your discussion almost immediately. People close themselves off and stop listening if they are being yelled at. Aside from physical and emotional stress that could develop from yelling all the time, people simply do not get any effective communication done. So next time, use a calm voice to find an answer to the problem rather than yelling at your partner. Your body will thank you in the long run.

Confide In a Therapist, Not A Friend

Friends are great ways to vent our frustrations out about our relationships. This is because good friends are always supportive no matter how things are going. They care about you that's why you're friends.

But sometimes the advice that friends give (even though they have good intentions) doesnt always present the best solution to fix the issues within your relationship. Instead, consider seeing a therapist or counselor. Someone who specializes in relationships can determine the actual problems of the relationship and, even better, providing possible solutions.